The first time is a little painful. Especially if you’re not ready. I am not saying you should have sex, but there are ways to make it more comfortable even enjoyable for you. Relax and use plenty of lubrication (if not it will not go in the first time), plenty of foreplay to make your body more accommodating.
Don’t expect too much from the first time. It is usually pretty uncomfortable.
But, don’t rush yourself to have sex. The hymen IS the painful part…it is the film that is ruptured for the first time that bleeds a little but once it is out of the way, then the pain should subside immediately…
sometimes that hymen is extremely frustrating in that it is a bit flexible and may or may not bleed the first time…so then..UNTIL it breaks it will be a tad painful…but remember that the guy DOES NOT want to hurt you..so he can be reluctant to break through…he doesn’t want you to cry and yet..it is kind of “a rock and a soft place” (sorry nothing “hard” about a vagina-except breaking the hymen 
I am led to believe that the more you relax and let the situation take care of itself..the less it will hurt…
August 4th, 2008 at 8:45 pm
well, it didn’t hurt at all actually.
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August 4th, 2008 at 8:47 pm
well, the only way it would hurt is if your a girl and either the guy is being too rough with you or he ripped that thin layer of skin. It would mainly depend on how the guy acts so if it is hurting you, tell him to stop. the next time you try it, it should hurt alot less
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August 4th, 2008 at 8:48 pm
no
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August 4th, 2008 at 8:48 pm
If the person has HIV or AIDS could hurt you for the rest of your life. You never know.
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August 4th, 2008 at 8:48 pm
The first time is a little painful. Especially if you’re not ready. I am not saying you should have sex, but there are ways to make it more comfortable even enjoyable for you. Relax…use plenty of lubrication (if not it will not go in the first time), plenty of foreplay to make your body more accomadating. Don’t expect too much from the first time. It is usually pretty uncomfortable. But, don’t rush yourself to have sex.
the hymen IS the painful part…it is the film that is ruptured for the 1st time that bleeds a little but once it is out of the way, then the pain should subside immediately…
sometimes that hymen is extremely frustrating in that it is a bit flexible and may or may not bleed the first time…so then..UNTIL it breaks it will be a tad painful…but remember that the guy DOES NOT want to hurt you..so he can be reluctant to break through…he doesn’t want you to cry and yet..it is kind of “a rock and a soft place” (sorry nothing “hard” about a vagina-except breaking the hymen
i am led to believe that the more you relax and let the situation take care of itself..the less it will hurt…
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August 4th, 2008 at 8:49 pm
virgin
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August 4th, 2008 at 8:49 pm
If your a guy, it only hurts when she gets prego!
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August 4th, 2008 at 8:51 pm
Are the first 3 people MEN? How would they know? LOL It is different for everyone (women). They hymen can be tougher on some ladies than others. For me, however, it hurt and we took our time. After that everything was A.O.K.
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August 4th, 2008 at 8:51 pm
okay it hurts and it feels good but when it feels good u just keep wanting to go all night mi first was in the 5th grade and i really liked him but i didnt have a baby any way it’s great but sometimes it can really harm your body so.
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August 4th, 2008 at 8:54 pm
first is to make sure you’re ready cause its something you dont want to regret in the future. make sure you’re safe and relaxed. it hurts the first time you have sex. i was 18 the first time i had sex and it was with a really good friend. i was relaxed and trust me it hurt a little still. if you’re not comfy with whats going on tell your partner and if it hurts. the more you have sex it doesnt hurt and feels really good.
so make sure youre ready and always be safe
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August 4th, 2008 at 8:57 pm
Its hard to describe because its different for every girl. There are many factors to consider. For example have u used tampons before. Did you use lubrication and also your own body is key every girl is made different.
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