Me and my wife have been married for 5 years now, but it seems our love have slipped into a routine I’m looking for romantic ways to break this routine and give her the best night of her life any suggestions?
While one night of romance is a good thing, it’s the things that you do for her consistently that mean the most. First, go back to when you two were new and remember the things you did to win her heart. Things like opening doors for her, taking her out to lunch or dinner, buying her chocolates or surprising her with flowers occasionally, telling her how beautiful she looks today, etc. But now that you’re married, incorporate those things with helpful things around the house such as taking out the trash, offering to help with chores such as laundry and cooking or even cooking FOR her on occasion. Offer her nights of cuddling while watching a movie. Even if it’s an action movie, something not necessarily romantic, she’ll love cuddling with you. It’s things like this that you do on a regular basis that keep us absolutely smitten with our husbands and our love going strong for years. And trust me, she’ll notice these things, and you’ll both benefit from that. Good luck doll~
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:12 pm
Go out somewhere and get drunk, not to the point where you black out. Then go back home around 2 in the morning and have some crazy hot sex.
ohh and when i say go out i mean take your wife 2
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:13 pm
Wear a post mans uniform and ring the door bell .
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:14 pm
Dude, when you find out. please let me know,,,,,
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:15 pm
Have risque sex at an unusual spot.
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:16 pm
It is hard. If she is a mom, it is more difficult to please, because her mind will always sink into house work and the kid. But the thought count. Just do whatever you planned, she will appreciate and love it.
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:17 pm
Kenny rogders
Buy Me A Rose
He works hard
To give her all
He thinks she wants
A three car garage,
Her own credit cards
He pulls in late
To wake her up
With a kiss
Good night
If he could only
Read her mind,
She’d say:
Buy me a rose,
Call me from work
Open a door for me,
What would it hurt
Show me you love me
By the look in your eyes
These are the little things
I need^The most in my life
Now the days have grown
To years
Of feeling
All alone
And she can’t help
But wonder what
She’s doing wrong
Cause lately she’d
Try anything
To turn his head
Would it make a difference
If she’d said:
Buy me a rose,
Call me from work
Open a door for me,
What would it hurt
Show me you love me
By the look in your eyes
These are the little things
I need
The most in my life
And the more that he lives
The less that he tries
To show her the love
That he holds inside
And the more that she gives
The more that he sees
This is a story
Of you
And me
So I bought you a rose
On the way home
From work
To open the door
To a heart
That I hurt
And I hope you notice ‘
This look in my eyes
Cause I’m gonna make
Things right
For the rest of your life
(Rest of your life)
And I’m gonna
Hold you tonight
Do all those
Little things
For the rest
Of your life
thought you could use some insperation lol
hey a day at the spa surprise her
and then a night on the town\
youll be the man
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:18 pm
its not about one best night its every thing do you help her with things around the house shopping washing clothes doing floors changing the sheets on the bed telling her that she is amazing and sexy and beautiful listen to her when she speak not just hear her listen to her
its all the little things that get women down it cant be all fix in one night
try and try again if you make her feel good about her self then that’s when things will change
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:18 pm
That is very sweet! you should plan a whole day for just the two of you! Something very special that you have never done before maybe you could get a hotel room and buy her roses. you should decorate the room very romantic lay rose petals everywhere and have strawberry’s dipped in chocolate, candles lit, and music! Always make sure to tell her you love her and that she is beautiful everyday! I wish your marriage the best of luck!
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:20 pm
Act the way you did when you first started dating. take her on a date bring her flowers,open doors for her, tell her she is beautiful etc.Just show her you can’t get enough of her!
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:21 pm
with women, it won’t fix in one night.. it takes many, many, many nights to get a hint… you need to change your routine.. take her out. make her feel like she is the most important person in the world.. I don’t think it takes a great deal, something simple… I am trying to do the same.. you need to think of what is important to her.. if she is at home during the day, get her out..
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:22 pm
she has a love language. learn to speak it quickly. some like gifts, some like hugs, some like service ie. mowing, dishes, well you get the idea. hers is probally not the same as yours so learn to speak hers not your own.
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:26 pm
While one night of romance is a good thing, it’s the things that you do for her consistently that mean the most. First, go back to when you two were new and remember the things you did to win her heart. Things like opening doors for her, taking her out to lunch or dinner, buying her chocolates or surprising her with flowers occasionally, telling her how beautiful she looks today, etc. But now that you’re married, incorporate those things with helpful things around the house such as taking out the trash, offering to help with chores such as laundry and cooking or even cooking FOR her on occasion. Offer her nights of cuddling while watching a movie. Even if it’s an action movie, something not necessarily romantic, she’ll love cuddling with you. It’s things like this that you do on a regular basis that keep us absolutely smitten with our husbands and our love going strong for years. And trust me, she’ll notice these things, and you’ll both benefit from that. Good luck doll~
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August 21st, 2008 at 3:26 pm
If you have children, set it up with your parents or hers to watch the kids for the night. Send her some flowers during the day and either leave an outfit on the bed (new that you bought for her) or leave a note on her pillow to put on some (nice jeans, skirt, whatever you want to insert here) and that you are going out that evening. Have the flowers sent to her work or home with a note or chocolates. Arrive home with your outfit on (take it to work and change there), with a flower in hand, her favorite perfume in hand, or a bracelet - any token you think she would enjoy. Date her again - make her feel as though your eyes are only on her. Take her to dinner, order some wine (don’t get fall down drunk - not romantic. Leave that to another night of fun). After dinner, take her to a nice hotel room that you have reserved for a change of scenery. Bring along a suitcase in the trunk that you have pre-packed. This takes some prior arranging, but she will so much enjoy the fact that you thought of it all and went to the trouble to be romantic. Pack an old photo of the two of you when you were dating. Talk about old times, make plans and see what she might like to do the following summer, watch a chick flick on TV and then have fun! Order room service for the movie if you want - or don’t watch a movie at all. Remember what it is that made you fall in love with her and tell her all about it. Let her know you still feel the same way. Best wishes!
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August 21st, 2008 at 5:38 pm
That Kenny Rogers song that someone mentioned is a great start. You might also try to recreate some of the things you used to llike doing together before you were married. Anything that let’s her know you’re thinking of her, you’re trying to notice her favorite things, all of that will do - just bring a little romance into your life & give her as much time & attention as you can! She’ll notice!
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