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Well I have started feeling that my wife belives that it is too much as at times she does not look very interested. I guess that she also gets tired of taking care of the the boys (2). The issue is I cant sleep without having a go . I don’t know what to do. Please advise.
September 13th, 2007 at 1:33 am
I too have the same problem but you have to give your wife a rest. They have made some wonderful male toys now days try to invest in them and make your wife beg u for sex.
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September 13th, 2007 at 1:35 am
Change positions, techniques, styles etc. Your probably boring her with the usual ho hum style that you are using.
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September 13th, 2007 at 1:37 am
Hey dude hate to tell you this but…YOUR WIFE HAS FEELINGS TOO!….Show her a little respect man!
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September 13th, 2007 at 1:41 am
I THINK EVERY NIGHT IS A LITTLE MUCH TRY 5 OUT 7 DAYS. IAM MOTHER OF 2 BOYS ALSO.
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September 13th, 2007 at 1:42 am
Spend time helping the wife get the kids to sleep. when you get home from work, if dinner is not ready, help her or start cooking. you never mentioned if she stays home with the kids or not, if she does, when you get home tell her to take an hour and do what she wants. you take the family responsibilities for a while so she can have a break. I've been married for 27 years. We have 2 grown and married daughters with 2 on there way out. There has never been a time to where I will come home and just sit around until it is time to go to bed. when I get home it's time for me to go to work with what ever needs work. Dinner, laundry, homework with the kids. running to the store. granted with my daughters being full grown and off to school most the day my wife take it easy most the time. but that’s because we’re in our 40's. you start to slow down. my wife has never had problems when it comes to sex because I help out. Most times by the end of the night we are tired enough to not even worry about it. we still have sex 4 or 5 times a week. but we do it because we want to, not because we can't go to sleep with out it. help out more around the house and get your self good and tired. by helping out you relieve stress on your wife, the kids, and the rest of the house. This helps you relax, helps your wife relax, and you often times will fall a sleep with out needing it. however you will find that when you start to help out around the house you and your wife are going to bed earlier which allows for more foreplay and giving your woman what she wants. when she’s relaxed she can enjoy it more and she will start to engage your more. You'll find your starting to have more satisfying sex then you did before. When she is relaxed and things have been done she is more willing to do things that will make you happy. unless she is completely selfish, but from what you have writen she does not sound like the selfish type. Good luck and start being the MAN of the house.
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This is what real men and real husbands do. when the wife is happy everyone is happy.
September 13th, 2007 at 1:44 am
I'm sure it isn't a case of your wife being disinterested in you. Taking care of children is a massive, thankless, moneyless job for which many women sacrifice a lot. Sometimes it can be frustrating and it can be difficult to relax.
If you don't already, why don't you help with the children? She can take a nice bath and not worry about what might happen. She can take a little time for herself and focus her energy into getting herself in the mood for you.
Sometimes women need down time because of hormonal changes in the body (menstration, menopause, etc.). It does not mean she doesn't want you…she simply needs a little break.
You can also masturbate to release your tension. There is nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself and you can explore other ways you enjoy simply by practicing this method. I hope this helps you in some small way.
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September 13th, 2007 at 1:47 am
start having a relationship with your hand!
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September 13th, 2007 at 1:50 am
hey we share the same feelings about it. I had my reasons why i like this…. as much as im concerned all i want is to feel loved and warmth and make sure that my man still wants me. In your case, maybe you are right she may be that tired taking care of the household chores plus your kids. Maybe you should be more considerate before asking for romance. how about massaging her a bit and let her est for a while and try to get her in to the mood.
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September 13th, 2007 at 1:54 am
Play with her pussy.
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September 13th, 2007 at 3:06 am
hmmm
if you get a maid to help around the house, sex every night won't be too much
if you get a live-in nanny to help care for your children, then sex every night won't be too much.
if you stay in shape and smell good all the time for your wife, then sex every night won't be too much.
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September 13th, 2007 at 4:11 am
Yeap its all about what you want and need.
Bet you don't help with the house, kids, cleaning, cooking, ect… cause you work all day and need to relax right.
Maybe she is bored to death with the same thing everyday, or she feels like that is the only reason you still have her around, or maybe she thinks it is expected of her.
Dude you have a sex addition problem granted most of it is more than likely in your head but still, you have a problem.
The real ? should be how are you going to fix your problem.
You are trying to find help on how to get your wife to sleep with you more instead of help for you on how to go with out it once in awhile.
Its easy go to the bathroom have fun with your right or left hand and take care of it yourself and let your wife get some piece and quite for a change.
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