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Comment on How can I make my wife love me again? by jason

jason — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 01:40:24 +0000

ive been married 3 months and my wife hates my guts, im a horrible person to her and everyone,i dont kno how to change or what to do, ive lost her and i hate myself,i love her to death and dont kno how to make anything better i want to die

Comment on How To Make Love Grow With Intimacy - 5 Simple Steps by mercy

mercy — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 14:10:56 +0000

well that a good idea. it works but for those men who are aged and want to marry will always ruh one into mariage. i agree with u that love ( takes times and that which takes time last).
and at the tail end we find happiness.

Comment on The wrong kind of love by Dawn

Dawn — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 12:46:59 +0000

I just think that you feel a true closeness with your counsin's baby. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that! The love between the baby and your boyfriend is different. When you "fall in love" there is a connection that you cant bare to break as with you boyfriend…now with your cousins baby….you just love him/her soooo much…you just cant put him/her down. Maybe you are just craving to have a baby of your own. I have 3 children of my own and know all to well that connection. Good Luck!
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Comment on The wrong kind of love by tom1400l

tom1400l — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 12:44:59 +0000

it is a diferent kind of love that is simular for you and your bf it is lust e.c.t , for the baby it family love……..
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Comment on The wrong kind of love by BabyyPikachu

BabyyPikachu — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 07:42:08 +0000

Is this the wrong kind of love?????
My cousin just had a baby. When I hold her baby I never want to put it down. I just want to be there forever for it and want to be there for every little thing it does. I want to protect it when it cries, to comfort it. The weird thing is, as I was holding the baby, I realize that it's the same way I feel when I put my arms around my boyfriend… Is that bad? I love my boyfriend like I love my cousin's baby… I mean, it's not only that I can't wait to hear my voicemail when I see he left me one, I hold my breath in excitement when I check my email to see if he emailed me… but I didn't know what to think about the baby thing. I love my boyfriend SO MUCH!

Comment on How to Make Love to a Woman in 5 Easy Steps by Stacey M

Stacey M — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 07:14:59 +0000

I know you asked for stepmoms to not answer your question but I couldn't refrain from sending you some hugs….((((HHHUUUUGGGSSS))). It sounds like you are down because you are not getting from your stepdad what you need. I would talk to him and tell him what you are feeling.
I know blended families can be hard. If he has kids of his own he may feel like he is betraying them if he shows you love and affection. But you and your mom are a package deal. He needs to love you as much as your mother. Let him know you want that closeness. He may think he is giving you what you want without trying to replace your dad. Like I said it all can be hard. If you have a hard time talking with him ask your mom to help you.
Good luck, sweetie!
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Comment on How to Make Love to a Woman in 5 Easy Steps by mrseahorse1

mrseahorse1 — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 07:12:59 +0000

i love my step daughter as much as my own kids , they are all treated the same. with equal love
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Comment on How to Make Love to a Woman in 5 Easy Steps by Mollywobbles

Mollywobbles — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 07:10:59 +0000

I am a stepmom but I'm also a stepdaughter. My Dad is technically my stepdad but he's the only Dad I've ever known or wanted to know. He's been my Dad for 35 yrs. I've always known about my biological father but I've never felt the need to find him because I already have a Dad.
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Comment on How to Make Love to a Woman in 5 Easy Steps by uniroyalfan

uniroyalfan — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 07:08:59 +0000

Wow that is one thought provoking question. I am a "step"father to 5 childern from my wife. I was a 39 year old bachlor when I met her . Her childern were 17,16,12 and 9 month old twins. She never in her wildest dreams thought anyone could fall in love with her because of all this "baggage" especially a 39 year old male who never was married and had no childern of their own, but I did.I built a love for all of "my childern" immediately. I know this wasn't a learned pattern but rather an extension of my love for their mother as they are in part her. Naturally there were some minor problems both ways with adapting to each others patterns but that happens whenever people start living together. There is never a day where I don't love them even if I don't approve of what they are doing or how they are acting. I do try to teach them right from wrong, let them learn from their mistakes when the results won't cause ANY type of harm. to be there for them whenever there is a problem that the want help with to provide them an example how to live life fairly, honestly and fully. I try to instill in them self pride and responsibility based on current age. I try to teach them a good strong work ethic. I try to be there for any and all needs. I try to teach them right from wrong and to think for themselves after all the masses are not always right.Yes there are days where they may disappoint me but ther is never a day I'm not thankful they are in my life. I will love them forever as they are MY childern.
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Comment on How to Make Love to a Woman in 5 Easy Steps by no-nickname

no-nickname — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 07:06:59 +0000

Finally a question that hits home.
My wife and I have 5 children. Three are mine and two are from her previous marraige.
Right from the start, when we were dating, I really enjoyed her children and liked being around them. One of them was very receptive to me and treated me like a Dad right from the start. The other took while to warm up to me.
Because their Dad was still active in their lives I tried my best to become close to them without stepping on his toes. I always made it clear that I respected their Dad and what he had to say about their lives and that I felt the same way about their mother's views. I think that allowed them to get close to me without feeling guilty towards their father. The most helpful thing was that their mother never succumbed to any efforts of the girls to play one parent against the other. We were strict with them and if they complained that it wasn't like that at Dad's we said, "too bad."
I alwayloved them like my own. You can't deny that there is a little bit of a difference in the type of bond you have when compared to your biological children but that doesn't mean it is any less special. I made a special point to always treat all 5 the same. My stepdaughters are older and have moved on now but i still feel like we are very close and I miss them.
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