Everyone wants to make love in a way that is special and intimate.
That’s because making love can be one of the most awesome and satisfying experiences we can experience as human beings. Love making does not only involve sexual pleasure but also a happier mood and a stronger relationship in the long term.
Not only is the experience gratifying, but also sacred. It’s treated with both reverence and taboo.
Every day, thousands of people secretly want to find out more about making love…
What is the right way to make love? How can I make love all night? How do I make love last? How do I make love stay? How do I make love happen?
People want to recapture the intimacy that they once had, or just capture it for the first time.
So how do we get that sense of intimacy back into our love life?
How do we please our partners, and feel pleasure ourselves, in a way that keeps love coming back over and over again?
1. Set The Mood
Setting the mood is one of the most important parts of making love work, and getting that sense of intimacy.
Dimming lights, and finding quiet time - these obvious steps help.
But something as simple as holding each other close and breathing together can make a huge difference.
By mirroring each other’s states and breathing together as you relax and hold each other, you become closer to your partner, and begin to feel the same emotions and desires as your partner.
2. Use Touch
From setting the mood, you’ll immediately begin to want to touch - but start slow.
Running your fingers through each others hair, kissing beneath the corner of the jaw, a slight touch on the neck, running your fingers down their back - all of these things will drive your partner wild - particularly if they respond well to touch.
But take your time. There’s no need to fast forward to the climax yet!
3. Romance
Amplify your feelings of love for each other by spending time doing something together.
Women - this can be particularly important for many men, as men by nature relate to people through actions whereas women relate through talking.
Think of the stereotype - women will plan to meet friends over coffee and just talk, but men will build a deck, go fishing, play poker, or fire up the barbeque with their buddies.
A date can be a way for you to talk, connect, become closer - and also do something.
By going out on a “date” beforehand, you begin to satisfy and fulfil each others needs long before you head to the bedroom!
4. Communicate
Talk to each other. Tell your partner that they are special to you. Tell them the wonderful ways they make you feel. Listen as they begin to glow as they tell you these things back.
As partners, we communicate. So share your intimate thoughts, emotions and desires in words.
Perhaps hearing the words of love are of particular significance to your partner? Perhaps hearing the words of love are important to you?
5. Hold Back
The best things in life take time - so don’t rush love.
Hold back!
Tease your partner. Come close, then move away. Kiss them, then touch them, then kiss them again. Get them to the point of climax… and then hold back.
Your reward will be a longer, more intimate experience.
Plus - a much more intense orgasm at the end!
Do you know what it takes to satisfy a woman? Can you please your man like nobody else? Do you want to find out more about what your partner expects in bed?
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