How To Make Love Grow With Intimacy - 5 Simple Steps

Everyone wants to make love in a way that is special and intimate.

That’s because making love can be one of the most awesome and satisfying experiences we can experience as human beings. Love making does not only involve sexual pleasure but also a happier mood and a stronger relationship in the long term.

Not only is the experience gratifying, but also sacred. It’s treated with both reverence and taboo.

Every day, thousands of people secretly want to find out more about making love…

What is the right way to make love? How can I make love all night? How do I make love last? How do I make love stay? How do I make love happen?

People want to recapture the intimacy that they once had, or just capture it for the first time.

So how do we get that sense of intimacy back into our love life?

How do we please our partners, and feel pleasure ourselves, in a way that keeps love coming back over and over again?

1. Set The Mood

Setting the mood is one of the most important parts of making love work, and getting that sense of intimacy.

Dimming lights, and finding quiet time - these obvious steps help.

But something as simple as holding each other close and breathing together can make a huge difference.

By mirroring each other’s states and breathing together as you relax and hold each other, you become closer to your partner, and begin to feel the same emotions and desires as your partner.

2. Use Touch

From setting the mood, you’ll immediately begin to want to touch - but start slow.

Running your fingers through each others hair, kissing beneath the corner of the jaw, a slight touch on the neck, running your fingers down their back - all of these things will drive your partner wild - particularly if they respond well to touch.

But take your time. There’s no need to fast forward to the climax yet!

3. Romance

Amplify your feelings of love for each other by spending time doing something together.

Women - this can be particularly important for many men, as men by nature relate to people through actions whereas women relate through talking.

Think of the stereotype - women will plan to meet friends over coffee and just talk, but men will build a deck, go fishing, play poker, or fire up the barbeque with their buddies.

A date can be a way for you to talk, connect, become closer - and also do something.

By going out on a “date” beforehand, you begin to satisfy and fulfil each others needs long before you head to the bedroom!

4. Communicate

Talk to each other. Tell your partner that they are special to you. Tell them the wonderful ways they make you feel. Listen as they begin to glow as they tell you these things back.

As partners, we communicate. So share your intimate thoughts, emotions and desires in words.

Perhaps hearing the words of love are of particular significance to your partner? Perhaps hearing the words of love are important to you?

5. Hold Back

The best things in life take time - so don’t rush love.

Hold back!

Tease your partner. Come close, then move away. Kiss them, then touch them, then kiss them again. Get them to the point of climax… and then hold back.

Your reward will be a longer, more intimate experience.

Plus - a much more intense orgasm at the end!

Do you know what it takes to satisfy a woman? Can you please your man like nobody else? Do you want to find out more about what your partner expects in bed?

Share your tips, questions and experiences below:

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I Want To Really Make My Husband Love Me
Hi my husband is older than me and i want to know somethings that can really make the bedroom hot and spicy stupid cosmo gives the the same old same old! I really want to do something hot this weekend for him since he is off work any ideas how i could set the mood! he isn’t into talking during it and i’m and i love to role-play and stuff but he never seems to be to into it he is more of a lets have sex and get it over with type of guy, so How can i be more suductive and sexy and make him want to do all the things that would make a reltionship spicy!!!!!!!! Thank you all please can i have some honest nice responses!

By your words, it seems that you’re too dictative which will have a negative impact on his ego. When a woman demands or expect her spouse to perform beyond his limits, its a humilation in his subconscious mind.

Try soften a bit, let him catch up progressively to your standards.

Do not dictate at this moment, be merely initiative, and let him take back the reins, inorder for him to feel macho for a start.

The art of teasing.

Wear thin hugging long dress where it reveals nothing more than your curves and half of your boobs sometimes when you bend down. Slight rub-bys every now and then when passing by, chance on tight passages to pass him by.

After running around for some chores give him a small hug from behind while he’s on a couch, make it seems like a much needed 1 sec rest, nothing more, move away to continue with your chores.

When you’re finished, sit and then gradually press near him claiming you’re aching a bit here and there, ask for a bit of massage at the upper hands, below the armpits and inner thighs, due to prolonged standing :) Just to make him make accidental rubbing of those erotic portions.

Slowly moan lightly of comfort derived from his light massage, ask for encore, make it known to him that he is giving you pleasure.

If he baits from this very moment, we will proceed to the next step, if not, just smile off with a peck to his cheek thanking him for the massage, rest down beside him to enjoy his TV show.

There will always be a next time. From your words, I think your hubby will melt down to your wifely woman’s grace.

If he baits, he’ll start to feel you over.

Submissive sex enjoyment.

When he lays you down, do nothing at first, just close your eyes and let him perform his manhood.

Give him light moans, not wild moans pls, draw long deep breath with shallow quick breaths just to let him know he hit the right buttons.

Try for once for a better start of a new found confidence for him.

Let him ride you submissively and lay down to enjoy.

Killer stroke (for you only) use very sparringly to look genuine.

When he ejaculates, grab at those linen or dig your nails in his back, bite your teeth, give him a big silent stare right at his eyes.

If he asks whether you are really enjoying that much, don’t answer him, just smile and turn away, look coy.

Man will not exchange anything in the world for that very moment. His macho-ness and libido will shoot up the ceiling.

But alas, you will start to worry bout his roaming eyes later.

Seems like you have to play the docile kitty for him for a while.

But it is worth all the while for your everlasting & loving marriage.

How do I make my wife love me again?

My wife and i have been married for 3 years. We have 2 children. I love all three of them with all my heart. The problem is that I was in the military when we got married and when I got out I became a truck driver. Because I know that she hated me being gone so much I got out of that career and found a job closer to home where I can be home every night. I think i found it too late though. She has said that she has turned off her emotions for me and prepared herself for leaving. She has also said that she does not want to be here. I asked for her to give it a few weeks to see if things will work out and she agreed. What can I do to make her love me again? Thanks for the help!

Hey There,

Sounds like your wife needs time to re-adust to your new life. See, I have been there myself. My ex was in the military, but in my case my ex was abusive. And I was glad when he was gone. In your case, sounds like you are one of the good guys. So you need to go back to the basics. Court her, (Date her), a woman always wants to know she, is the only one for her man. Leave a rose, and a note on your pillow, when you leave for work. Gently give her a kiss on her head, as you leave. Do little things for her. Be romantic, guys seem to really have a tough time with this , I do not know why,…lol!
Get a sitter one night a week. Make this a standing date, every week, but make the nights out special, you know your wife better than we do. But this is important! You must win her all over again. A woman wants her children to be well loved, and have a devoted father for them, BUT, she does not want to play second fiddle to them ether! DO NOT TAKE HER FOR GRANTED! this is a very, very big no no! Cherish her, look deeply into her eyes, hold the back of her head, smile at her and tell her you love her, very slowly, with a great desire, and very gently, and slowly kiss her! Not a slobbery, tongue down the throat, kind of kiss, but a tender loving, passionate kiss. Then stand back and hold her hand. Just be yourself, and let your love lead the way! Tenderness, and total love, is the key! Never let people tell you that love and passion die after the honeymoon! Those people have never been in what is called over the moon in love, with anyone but themselfs!!!!! You must be willing to make you wife happy! As the old saying goes. If mom ain't happy, no ones happy!

~~~~ Hope this helps~~~~ Blessings~~~~~~

SORRY IF SPELLING IS A BIT OFF, SPELL CHECKER ON THE FRITZ….lol!

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How to Make Love to a Woman in 5 Easy Steps

Making love to a woman is a skill that most men think they have. But in truth there are plenty of women who are left unsatisfied by their partner’s performance!

Unfortunately what commonly happens is men get their sexual advice friends or from pornography. As a result, they have a distorted view of what sex is actually about.

If you really want to know how to make love, you should follow a PROVEN system that is guaranteed to give pleasure to a woman.

In this article, I’ll discuss a step-by-step system that many guys use to have great sex:

Step 1- Put her in ‘The Mood’

Before you have sex, you have to put your woman in the mood. This involves setting up the right kind of environment which will enhance her pleasure.

To put her in the mood, you should darken the room, light some candles and put on good music. Your focus should be to create an atmosphere which emphasizes sensuality.

Step 2- Use foreplay

Foreplay is one of the most important things to learn about how to make love to a woman. Using foreplay is the best way to transition from a conversation to having sex.

Typically foreplay involves kissing, “heavy petting” and sensual massages. The rule of thumb is to really focus on her pleasure and start building up intensity.

Step 3- Give her oral sex

Towards the end of foreplay, you need to start giving her oral sex. Start slowly and use your tongue and fingers.

Since women like different things in oral sex, try to experiment with various oral sex techniques. When you see her get really excited, continue to do whatever is getting her into it.

Step 4- Tease her

Once you’ve brought her to the pinnacle of pleasure from oral sex, you should start to have sex. Now most guys will just start having sex without any thought. This is a mistake!

Instead of going right for sex, you should start to tease her. What you should do is go slowly and start to have sex, then stop. Keep doing this till she goes crazy and practically pulls you inside her.

Step 5- Start slowly and build up intensity

Now once you’ve having sex, it’s important to change paces (and positions). Again your focus is to concentrate on her pleasure and make sure she’s really enjoying herself.

What really works is to build up speed then pull back to a slow and sensual pace. Keep doing this pattern till both of you can’t take it anymore.

Knowing how to make love to a woman is an important skill to have. If you can follow the five step process I described in this article, you’ll instantly become the best lover she’s ever had.

Now all you have to do is go find a woman to practice your new skills!

How can I make my wife love me again?

Over many years I have been horrible to my wife, who is a lovely person. I deeply regret this and hate myself for it. How best can I make amends and bring some joy and happiness into her life? I think she stopped loving me a long time ago but I don't think she hates me.

Actions speaks louder than word. My husband did some things that made me stop loving him in the first few years of our marriage, but he has made up for it and I love him more now than ever before. It will take time, but if you put your heart and soul into making your wife happy she will remember why she fell in love with you. Hopefully that works for you. Good luck and maybe you will think before you hurt her again.

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How do I get my wife to want to make love to me?

My wife of 22 years doesn't feel any desire for me. She could do without sex all together. I waited until both our kids where at college and I thought maybe then, but she has no desire. I try to be tender, caring, gentle, aggressive, funny, serious. I don't know what to do. I took a vow. I want her face to be the last thing I see before I die, but I'm 43 and I want to have sex, I want to make love, I want to experiment, I want to feel good and make her feel good too. I am so lost.

Is your wife older than you? Maybe she is going through the change. Or maybe she has the empty nest syndrome…since the kids are gone. Just keep up what you are doing. Listen to her when she speaks…be sweet…and gentle and NEVER stop trying. Sounds like you are very romantic. I wish my husband was that way. She'll come around. Try a nice sensual bubble bath or suggest a seductive night of dinner, dancing and love making…get her favorite wine and music all set and let what happens…happen. NEVER…NEVER rush! that's such a turn off. Good luck. Sounds like she is just depressed…but loves you and she'll come around when realizes you went to all this trouble.

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I've got love, all the sex I want, own a home, and make good money. Why do I feel so much ennui?

Can you spare me the god stuff. Thank you ever so much.

You might be missing things that once made you feel like yourself. A lover, sex, home, and money are fine, but they all came after a certain point in your life. What did you have before? How did you spend time with yourself? What are you doing for yourself now? It's hard, especially when you get into the mood of reflecting on it. I used to write, but I let other parts of my life (like my love, my work, or just being tired) numb it out of me. I'm trying to get it back.

Spend some time with yourself, figure out a few things that you'd like to accomplish for your own enjoyment, and do them - you can feel free to share with others. You might find everyone around you suddenly happier.

Ennui. I suppose that's why we're sitting in front of monitors, trying to feel something real, something different. I think I'll go for some air now.

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How do you know if its sex or making love?

What is your opinion is making love and sex different? Which one is better and why?

Is sex is meaningless, and you know it when you do it?

Is making love is when you have stronger feelings than just the sexual ones when you’re doing it?

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Does writing love letters to my wife make me a great husband? Is it unusual?

I’ll post one later, I just wanted to know if it made me better than most husbands. Is it such a great thing that it makes my affairs acceptable? Kind of a tradeoff, like carbon credits. I think my letters are good, I get that feeling because my wife, moo moo lovins’ always cries when she reads them.

Dang it…this was a trick…I was looking forward to reading a love letter.

I think love letters makes you a wonderful husband!

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Does anybody have any suggestions on how to make my wife fall in love all over again?

Me and my wife have been married for 5 years now, but it seems our love have slipped into a routine I’m looking for romantic ways to break this routine and give her the best night of her life any suggestions?

While one night of romance is a good thing, it’s the things that you do for her consistently that mean the most. First, go back to when you two were new and remember the things you did to win her heart. Things like opening doors for her, taking her out to lunch or dinner, buying her chocolates or surprising her with flowers occasionally, telling her how beautiful she looks today, etc. But now that you’re married, incorporate those things with helpful things around the house such as taking out the trash, offering to help with chores such as laundry and cooking or even cooking FOR her on occasion. Offer her nights of cuddling while watching a movie. Even if it’s an action movie, something not necessarily romantic, she’ll love cuddling with you. It’s things like this that you do on a regular basis that keep us absolutely smitten with our husbands and our love going strong for years. And trust me, she’ll notice these things, and you’ll both benefit from that. Good luck doll~

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