Hi my husband is older than me and i want to know somethings that can really make the bedroom hot and spicy stupid cosmo gives the the same old same old! I really want to do something hot this weekend for him since he is off work any ideas how i could set the mood! he isn’t into talking during it and i’m and i love to role-play and stuff but he never seems to be to into it he is more of a lets have sex and get it over with type of guy, so How can i be more suductive and sexy and make him want to do all the things that would make a reltionship spicy!!!!!!!! Thank you all please can i have some honest nice responses!
By your words, it seems that you’re too dictative which will have a negative impact on his ego. When a woman demands or expect her spouse to perform beyond his limits, its a humilation in his subconscious mind.
Try soften a bit, let him catch up progressively to your standards.
Do not dictate at this moment, be merely initiative, and let him take back the reins, inorder for him to feel macho for a start.
The art of teasing.
Wear thin hugging long dress where it reveals nothing more than your curves and half of your boobs sometimes when you bend down. Slight rub-bys every now and then when passing by, chance on tight passages to pass him by.
After running around for some chores give him a small hug from behind while he’s on a couch, make it seems like a much needed 1 sec rest, nothing more, move away to continue with your chores.
When you’re finished, sit and then gradually press near him claiming you’re aching a bit here and there, ask for a bit of massage at the upper hands, below the armpits and inner thighs, due to prolonged standing 
Just to make him make accidental rubbing of those erotic portions.
Slowly moan lightly of comfort derived from his light massage, ask for encore, make it known to him that he is giving you pleasure.
If he baits from this very moment, we will proceed to the next step, if not, just smile off with a peck to his cheek thanking him for the massage, rest down beside him to enjoy his TV show.
There will always be a next time. From your words, I think your hubby will melt down to your wifely woman’s grace.
If he baits, he’ll start to feel you over.
Submissive sex enjoyment.
When he lays you down, do nothing at first, just close your eyes and let him perform his manhood.
Give him light moans, not wild moans pls, draw long deep breath with shallow quick breaths just to let him know he hit the right buttons.
Try for once for a better start of a new found confidence for him.
Let him ride you submissively and lay down to enjoy.
Killer stroke (for you only) use very sparringly to look genuine.
When he ejaculates, grab at those linen or dig your nails in his back, bite your teeth, give him a big silent stare right at his eyes.
If he asks whether you are really enjoying that much, don’t answer him, just smile and turn away, look coy.
Man will not exchange anything in the world for that very moment. His macho-ness and libido will shoot up the ceiling.
But alas, you will start to worry bout his roaming eyes later.
Seems like you have to play the docile kitty for him for a while.
But it is worth all the while for your everlasting & loving marriage.